Hi, I'm Thomi!

Founder, speaker, coach. I guide you through the beautiful and messy realities of relationships and personal growth.

Together, we use gamified psychology, playful symbolism, and storytelling to help you ascend your story!

Discover helpful tools from mobile apps, coaching, and supportive community.

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Explore My Work

📱 Mobile App

Selfrell

An app that helps people navigate relationships and identify emotional connections and triggers through a gamified journaling experience.

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🧠 Mentorship

Coaching

A 50-minute session where we untangle whatever is overwhelming you, then strategize how to navigate that using the Selfrell framework.

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👥 Network

Community

Join a private digital community where we meet weekly to reflect about life, exchange insights, and continue to support one another! Contact me if interested!

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Other Projects

Thirybute

Inspired by my real gift to my wife! A platform to create expressive tributes to important relationships or moments in your life.

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Itsmunchable

A philosophical refuse to face against the silent epidemic of disconnected dreams and deep ache of loneliness. Join the movement by downloading the app!

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A Little About Me

I'm an Indonesian born American, traveler, and life experience engineer. After I completed a failed exploration to build a base for my childhood trauma in college, I instinctively moved to Taiwan so I could be with my now, wife.

Fearless with the initial challenges, I soon learned the importance of relationships dynamics and their effects on psychological wounds and mental health.

Bruised and lost for identity, I held on to explore the world and within. Instinctively again, now I use my vision and empathy to help others heal to find fulfillment, deep connection, and lifeful!